“We sit and wonder, “How did we get here?”– Not realizing the window we are looking out of, is in the room with the four walls WE ourselves have built.”
why do we build walls: We build walls with our insecurities, our fears, and our self-proclaimed inadequacies. We build walls with a lack of faith, external validation seeking, and failed expectations. We build walls to protect our hearts, to hide our true selves, and to avoid being defined by society. Brick by brick, higher and higher. we live within our creation. Limited to our four walls. Fortunately for us, bricks made of insecurities, fears, and all of those other destructive adopted ideas, are weak. They can be punched out and destroyed by believing in ourselves, incorporating faith, and practicing self-love.
Every day Break Free of the conventional and embrace those things that bring you alive. Tear down those walls you’ve built around yourself and look out into the distance. Your life is just waiting to be lived to its fullest potential. Allow for curiosity and wonder to replace any feelings of doubt or fear. Where walls once stood you will now see hope, possibility, and a life filled with authenticity and joy. Live it up and knock down those walls.
How To Destroy The Wall Tips:
Learn to Climb (Use your Resourcefulness)
The walls you’ve built might seem too high for you to traverse, but anything is possible when you believe in your own resourcefulness. Take a long hard look at the positive attributes that already exist within you. You are bigger and more powerful than any wall you’ve managed to build around you. This wall is an illusion. It is an illusion that up until this point has succeeded to keep you small. Have faith in your own natural abilities by reconnecting with past successes and significant milestones you’ve experienced. Can you recall a time when you were upset, intimidated, or full of doubt? How did you persevere through this moment? Is this matter of any importance to you now? Bring this memory forward and use it elevate you over and past your presenting struggle. There are strengths within us that we sometimes forget but they continue to be a part of our internal arms. Take inventory of your past victories and use these memories as the powerful forces that will get you up and over any wall.
Awaken Your Inner Courage
The walls we’ve created are fortified with our fears and doubts. The more we fear the more bricks we pile onto the walls that block our progress and growth. When we learn to replace our limiting beliefs with thoughts of curiosity, and wonder we slam against our walls with the powerful hammer that is our courage. It is only when we dare to see what’s possible that we are willing to exchange our fears for feelings of possibility and excitement. What are you more excited about than afraid of? Let your courage be that powerful force that helps to bring those walls crashing down. Expand your view and allow yourself to see what wonders lie ahead of you.
Open Your Eyes (Embrace Choice and Keep Moving Forward)
It is only when we are curious about our potential and possibility that we can clear our minds of doubt and fear and make room for our dreams to emerge. Open your eyes to the possibilities that exist when fear no longer dominates your thoughts. Embrace the choices that exist in every moment of every day. You can choose to break down your walls with a simple shift in perspective. What will your world look like when you embrace choice and move in the direction of your dreams?